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Monday, January 09, 2006

Being a thoughtful person sometime tends to annoy one person

Surely, you would say when you know someone who is so thoughtful, that person can be classified as caring for others. Wait a minute, can that person be classified that way? or can't? The answer is between can and can't. 'Can' is the answer for someone who is thoughtful enough to think about others who do really need to be thought for or cared. 'Cannot' is for someone who is thoughtful in the wrong way. I met some people who goes to the category 'Cannot' and recently it comes to my realisation that this someone particular I know whom in the beginning I highly regard her as a very caring person turns out to be none other than a busybody!

First of all, I do hate, let me restated my sentence: I HATE people who are preying onto my life! Who wants to know every single little thing I do. Whom I date, what my status is for now (single or dating or perhaps married or divorced?), where I am going on the weekends and what I do for living. I don't even want to know about other people's private lives, why you wanna know mine? Are ya deprived of any hot gossips around the globe? If you are, let me suggest ya some stuffs to do, pick magazines or books and do go read to kill your times or mind your own fucking business, mind you.

Whoever I date, or if I am being unfaithful to my partner, that is my sin not yours. I can date whoever I wanna date and it's not a thing that you need to discuss behind my back. Or if I am being unfaithful to my partner, if I chose to do so, then let it be that way. Why bothers to find out or to straight things up when I want it to bend?

My status is for me to know. Either I am in a relationship or single, that is none of your business. If I wanna say I am single then it's me who is saying it, it won't affect your life. If I wanna say I am currently having someone special in my life, it's my life still and it's my life that is special because of this someone...why cares? If I chose not to tell you anything, then don't ask. I don't consider sharing my romantic life with people whom I am not close with. I share my love life with my best friends, not to publics. If I didn't say a thing, then remember you are not my good friends to let me owe you some explanation! Geez get a life, will ya?

For about I stay at home every day or going out every day, both are my bloody business. Don't even ask me a stupid question like "You are not going out today?" hinting that I might drop the bomb by telling you "Oh yeah, my boyfriend will show up in a min, wanna check him out? cos you are deprived of seeing him" Bloody hell, why don't ya ask yourself, why you are not going out today?

About my job, I don't give a shit about people who give nasty comments. Even though I work my ass off every day, I still get questions like "Why don't u go and get a job?" Yeah right, every day, I am in my lala land. Helping parents = sleeping at home every day, to some idiots! I recently spat at someone who asked me that question. I said to this person "Well if you think helping out family business can't be considered as working then I don't know how people classify this : you wake up in the morning, working until late hours and sometime you miss out most of your weekends because you still have works to do. You make sure the business running smoothly. Now you don't consider that to be working then is it a holiday?" I asked him that, he couldn't answer it and just said he must agreed that it is a work. Then I said think before you blurted out anything stupid next time. I have been receiving the same question again and again. People,do stop commenting about my life. If you can't grip something for yourself, then shit your own life! What I do for living is my damn business. Don't say things like "Oh it's sad that you get a degree and you can't get a proper job!" I don't buy that lame statement. I wanna see after you outta school, what you can do with your life...can you do better than I am? I wanna see. You see it I am working or I am not working, I don't care. Stop questioning me about my life. I know what I do. But perhaps you don't know what you do?

What I read is what I want to read. Whether it contents some sexual explicit things or whatever, it is me who reads it. If you feel bothered by it, then don't prey on what I read!

Are you a loser or are you just being a pain in the ass?


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