It's officially a day before the Valentine's day and for those with the status written "In a relationship" will unofficially be busy =p. From year to year, some male friends will ask me the same questions again and again : "What will be the best gift for her this year?" ; "Where should I take her for dinner?" ; "How to make this year Valentine's day more special than a year before?" ;S. Ah well guys, calm down a bit, will ya? hehehe...do ya know what is the best gift a girl ever receive from her boyfriend or her husband? It's you! The boyfriend or the husband. Believe me but it's true. Love her even more, shower her with more attention and do try to listen to her problems and it's going to make her feeling special and every day is gonna be a val's day for the two of you! Don't only make her feel special just once in a year! It's a bonus if ya give her flowers or chocolate or anything for val's day but please don't love her more on that only day and loves her less for the rest of 364 days!
1996 : The 1st time ever for me to even really know the meaning of val's day (come on I was a freak! hahahaha) and how I celebrated it? pretty unique. I went to val's day party that was hosted by my senior. I was supposed to be picked up by Danny but it was James who wanted so desperately to fetch me, which in the end I threatened Danny if it was James who showed up by my door, I wouldn't go. Phew, it was Danny who escorted me in the end. Sorry, James =p
1997 : I was far and away from then my boyfriend during this period. I just moved to Singapore and he was in Surabaya. As a result, we didn't celebrate it, just said "Happy Val's day" on the phone. He later gave me a late gift and it was a swatch watch! Only that it was too big on me and my brother who made a good use of it...
1998 : I was single and I received a val card from my junior! Ok that was pretty pathetic though he's a nice guy. I had to turn him down when he asked me to go for dinner. I didn't want to give someone a hope when he didn't stand any chance.
1999 : I was in Australia and all alone. I didn't remember how I celebrated this one.
2000 : Still in Australia and I received a rose and lovely lovely chocolates from Jason! ;)
2001 : single single single life
2002 : ok, pathetic still single and where was I? Oh I was in Singapore, stressing about finding good job for myself.
2003 : Back to my hometown, I was still single and found my then boyfriend after the val's day, oh well...
2004 : Though, I was not single, I didn't celebrate it with him. I think we had had arguments few days before and everything didn't turn like what we expected so we celebrated it on our own. I went for this double date with my sis, my cousin and Liong...huahuahaua and we said to ourselves "We hope we will spend val's day next year with out partners rather than spending it like desperate foursomes! huahuahua"
2005 : Again, I was in Singapore and very single and I didn't even remember val's day! oh I remembered, a friend asked me to be his val but I was in Singapore, so I told him, fly here...
2006 : Singapore again! Ok, I must say Singapore has got to be my fav place for val's day! huahuahua it's the 5th time for the last 9 years! (come to think of it, I only celebrated val's day in indo for 1 time!). I'm running away from reality this year...